The Contract is Over

The Family Code defines marriage as a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with the law for the establishment of conjugal and family life. Likewise, the Constitution provides that the family is a social basic institution by which public policy cherishes and protects. In  all, marital union is a sacred and solemn occasion by which the parties are bound to observe mutual love, offer fidelity and give needed support until the color of death appears.

While no law prohibits marriage between a Filipino and an alien, the State, nevertheless, must guard all the evils that may germinate with the present trend of marital sacrament. Obviously, gone were the days when we only seldom witness a union between two couples of different races. In fact, the converse is true, where some Filipino women sell their souls to senile aliens in exchange for material wealth and fortunate disposition in life. Sadly, instead of rearing a happy family after having perfected the special contract, when love and lust begins to crumble like a sand fortress, each, particularly the non-Filipino spouse, with their own tales, causes to file divorce.

Absolute divorce may not find solace under our system of family affairs, as it is against public morals and customs. However, Article 26 of the family code provides for recognition of divorce validly obtained by the alien spouse outside of the Philippines. To succinctly put it, alien spouses are given the road to severe marriage in foreign land. Apparently, this has been the practice and the common resort of dissatisfied partners having lost the heat of mutual affection. While it may be true that no one is bound to live in hell, nonetheless, with this controversy of demeaning the sanctity of family life, the State must risks all it efforts to preserve the basic unit of the society.

Unfamily Portrait

As defined by the Family Code of the Philippines, marriage is a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with the law for the establishment of conjugal and family life. The strength of a family depends upon the strength of marital life. When the foundation of the family is weak the slightest wind of temptation would cause its bedrock to fall apart. But, when the bonds are strong, a storm, however mighty, would never summon the relationship into the horizon of uncertainty.

A story of marital relationship may begin with happiness, love, sincerity and passion at the early stage of their life. Nevertheless, as they venture longer into the unknown world, they succumb to realize the necessary mistake they have committed and yet find themselves into an uncompromising situation that their indifference, by character and by lust, would end by death alone. One, who suffers the non-contentment of the other spouse, may seek refuge on another’s heart. Thus, once a blissful moment in their distant past has now become a misery both of which are ought to face. No one is bound to escape the evil they sow, since by law their marriage would never be severed.

It is the highest form of ignorance to conceive the possibility of fixing the broken pieces of a couple’s marital affair. No other remedy is rightful, but the gift of the lost liberty. While the State recognizes the family as the basic unit of the society and acknowledges marriage as a social inviolable institution, it is, by force of reason, indispensable to reconsider the adoption of divorce. It is undeserving to call an entity a family where hate, violence, abuse and jealousy reign supreme. Thus, to cherish and protect the family includes the ultimate sacrifice of emancipation.